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Reduce Speed Ahead

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Sometimes we move too fast. We’re in a hurry. Maybe we don’t know if we can get where we’re trying to go. We’re unsure so we go extra fast ignoring everything around us. Full speed ahead, eyes on the prize. Isn’t that what they tell us to do? Isn’t that what we value most, making up our mind and going for it? What about the people we’re plowing through or ignoring in our hurry to get where we want to be? Or think we have to be. Or think others expect us to be. Or are afraid not to be. What about the scenery? Not the smell the roses kind, but the maybe we should have taken a turn back there kind. And what about our breath? Has it grown stale gripped tightly in our throats during our mad dash? What about our soul? How could we have rushed off without it? What will we say to it when it catches up to us? How can we be ourselves without it? Pause people. This time look. See. Notice. Choose wisely. Slowly. With care.

Altered No Entry

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Last year, when I was in Florence, I saw the work of Clet Abraham. He is an artist who alters European traffic signs. He sites various reasons for doing this, many of which are aesthetic in nature, but he also claims these signs speak down to us. The two altered no entry signs shown here seem to point out a refusal to take these signs seriously and to express a feeling of being unwillingly forced into encountering them.

People give us signs of what they want us to do all the time. This often happens in an individual to individual manner. But sometimes, individuals give us signs of what they want us to do because they fear we won’t do what’s expected. More importantly, they seem to believe that if we go too far beyond what they and the group they belong to deem to be acceptable, that somehow, our authenticity becomes a rebellion and a revolt against this accepted way, which they of course wholeheartedly see as the right and only way.

These same people praise innovation but only when what is innovated can become a part of their paradigm. They see individualism not merely as the breath-in-breath-out practice of living authentically but rather as a call to arms to stamp out a wayward, confused member of the human race. Not to get all Ayn Rand on you but how smart can you truly be if you fear difference? How inclusive are you if your acceptance of diversity has a limited list?